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cheriiamour ha risposto al tuo post “Your blog still turns me on so much. I may have asked you before but do you play with other men? Or does he exclusively get to play?”

Thats pretty hot. He’s a lucky man then. Do you prefer to be involved when he plays with another girl?

If it were for me, yes, I’d really like to be involved and watch what happens between them. But life isn’t fair, and the lovers we’ve met so far have always felt uncomfortable with me around, so I’ve always stepped aside. One day we’ll find someone who won’t deny my existence, but until then I’ll make the best of what we can have xD 

Secondo te il cuckqueaning è una pratica sessuale o anche "di vita"? Voglio dire, sessualmente mi eccita molto ma ho paura delle ripercussioni che possa avere sulla mia vita.
Anonymous

[[Mind that this ask and its answer are translated in English under the Italian part.]] 

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Non pensi mai che "per giustizia" tu debba andare a letto con un altro uomo? Non ti eccita neppure un po' l'idea? E se no, è per carattere tuo o per le diamiche quean che si sono create e che ti eccitano?
Anonymous

Ok, prima di tutto, “per giustizia” non è un concetto che ha senso in questo contesto. Non è una dinamica di abuso in cui sono sbilanciata e sento il bisogno di riequilibrare e curare il mio Io strappato pareggiando i conti. Inoltre, quel “debba” toglie tutto il sapore della scelta individuale e mi mette davanti una sorta di regola di buona condotta sociale, dove ad una certa reazione dovrebbe seguirne un’altra, per buon costume. Mi sono già divertita a smontare tutti i castelli che mi erano stati imposti socialmente riguardo alle relazioni e a come dovrebbero andare parecchio tempo fa. 
Non te lo nascondo, per tutto il primo anno del cuckqueaning il pensiero di dover mettermi in pari è stato pressante. Ma era una questione di puro orgoglio, nulla che avesse effettivamente sostanza propria. Man mano che risolvevo le mie insicurezze è stato facile vedere che non avevo davvero bisogno di pareggiare alcunché.
La questione qui non è se mi eccita o meno l’idea di andare con altri, ma il fatto che sarebbe una pratica che non avrebbe a che fare con il cuckqueaning. Non sono insensibile all’attrazione sessuale verso altre persone, ma l’idea di girare la frittata ed avere una dinamica cuckold non mi eccita. Dovesse mai venirci la voglia di inserire un altrO nei nostri ‘giochi’, sarebbe in una dinamica completamente estranea al cucking. 

Your blog still turns me on so much. I may have asked you before but do you play with other men? Or does he exclusively get to play?

Aw, thank you >.< 
No, I don’t play with other men, he’s the only one who goes with others. I’m only intersted in being his cuckquean :3 

I'm really tuned on by the cuckqeen dynamic and I believe my wife is too... But she says she wants me to sleep with other women. That it turns her on but she doesn't want to know about it. I'm confused because I'm more turned on about sharing this and don't really feel like doing anything with someone else without her knowing (feels like cheating). What are your thoughts on this dynamic?
Anonymous

My thoughts about any kind of dynamic is always: as long as the people involved are happy with it, then everything’s fine.
I understand her point, to be honest. At the beginning I didn’t want to hear the stories too. I was happy knowing that he would be enjoying a freedom he wouldn’t be able to experience if it weren’t for me, but I didn’t have the slightest interest in being part of it. 
She may change idea in the future. She may get curious about it once she starts, or wake up one day and find that she’s now ready to be an active cuckquean.
The point is, don’t deny her something just because you think it would be wrong. If it’s cheating or not, it’s something that you two decide, not you alone (especially if it’s exactly what she wants). Remember that cheating is the betrayal of trust, and in cuckqueaning there’s nothing of that. 
Of course, if going with others without her being involved doesn’t work for you (for example, my boyfriend doesn’t see the appeal in going with others if I’m not involved in some way) you need to tell her and find a way to make the both of you happy. 
Compromise is a two-way road. 

Let me know how it goes :3


davvero bella rispposta, grazie mille!! solo una cosa, lei più che della gelosia e del probito parlava invece di volermi far essere felice al massimo, perchè mi ama e vorrebbe concedermi doppia dose di felicità eheh (magari con l'aiuto dell'alcool)... spero che l'ottimismo resti anche con queste premesse!!
Anonymous

II parte: "però sono fiducioso in effetti, perchè (e scusa se ti scrivo un altro posto ahah) lei è sempre sembrata interessante a provare con una donna, quindi quando me lo ha detto la immaginavo anche lei attiva con l’altra, lei invece ha detto che non vorrebbe proprio toccarla e sarbbe "solo mia""

Tieni in considerazione che la spinta verso l’esplorazione sessuale con lo stesso sesso e il cuckqueaning sono due pratiche che possono sì andare mano nella mano, ma sono essenzialmente separate. C’è una grande differenza tra il vivere il contatto con l’altra all’interno di un contesto cuckquean, e quello invece in una regolare threesome o eventualmente in un incontro da sole. 
Se quello che vorresti realizzare tu è un rapporto in cui anche lei è attivamente coinvolta con l’altra, devi chiederti se il cuckqueaning sia proprio la strada che vuoi seguire, o se una normale threesome ti soddisferebbe ugualmente. Perché il coinvolgimento mentale è completamente diverso nei due casi, e puoi aspettarti che la tua fidanzata sia d’accordo con una e non con l’altra. 
Insomma, parlale :)

 

 

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ciao, posso chiederti un consiglio? la mia ragazza è gelosissima, io non la tradirei mai nè mai ho pensato ad una cosa a tre, però qualche tempo fa mi ha detto che quando la faccio ingelosire mi vorrebbe uccidere ma pure saltarmi addosso perchè si eccita, e la cosa mi ha stuzzicato assai, ammetto che ci ho pensato molto. oggi dopo esserci divertiti mi ha confermato la cosa ed ha detto che anzi la ecciterebbe vedermi baciare un'altra mentre lei me lo sta succhiando. è una possibile quean per te?
Anonymous

II parteperò ad esempio diceva che il mio pene è solo suo, l’altra deve solo leccarmi il collo e cose così. insomma, la eccita questa piccola competizione, che lei però vuole e deve ovviamente vincere. l’ho giocata male però credo ehehe, dovrei riprovarci secondo te?

Sinceramente penso che sì, le premesse ci sono, e lei potrebbe essere una cuckquean.
Credo tu sia in una di quelle fasi molto delicate dove ogni minima mossa può decidere il tuo destino (guarda come diventa epico il discorso!), perciò attento a ciò che dici. 
Da quello che ho capito, la gelosia è al momento uno degli ingredienti principali dell’attrattiva sessuale della cosa: è eccitante perché è oltraggioso e vietato. Se riuscissi a cavalcare quest’onda senza farla sentire come se tu non vedessi l’ora di buttarti sulle altre, avresti un giusto appiglio per poter riaprire il discorso (ammesso che sia stato chiuso).
Sii ottimista, questo genere di pensieri non va via facilmente una volta che entrano in testa. Ammesso che si facessero dei passi falsi e il discorso si chiudesse, fidati quando ti dico che può essere riaperto in qualsiasi momento. Non ci si dimentica facilmente di aver trovato eccitante il cuckqueaning.


Just wanted to say your posts about the experiments are lovely and very interesting to read. I've recently 'discovered this world' and while it intrigues me and dare I say turns me on, I don't think my girl would ever agree to it. So I will keep this as mere thoughts and dreams, and that's ok. How did you get pet into this idea? Maybe I have a chance lol Best of luck to the both of you! Looking forward to reading more updates! (give pet a kiss; she deserves it)
Anonymous

deviantengineering:

Thank you for your kind words! Pet has been firmly kissed, for she certainly does deserve it.

I didn’t really get her into the idea, as such. I’m firmly of the opinion that attempting to convince someone that they want to be the “cheated-on” partner in fidelity play looks like a huge conflict of interest and throws the integrity of the arrangement into question. (How to manufacture a compliant cuckquean from scratch and on demand seems to be a much-sought-after method, which gives me the creeps. See also: Post-fact rationalisation of secret infidelity.) That doesn’t mean you can’t mention it, just that you have to be careful not to even slightly coerce or badger in any way.

Pet and I seem to have different memories of how we first got into the idea. Pet’s version goes something along the lines of “Master brought up the topic of mistresses in jest one day, and then later I decided that I might actually like him to go off and have one”.

Yeah, Pet isn’t very talkative right now. She’s blushing and making noises instead of forming words so I’ll embellish for her.

Pet and I have always been very open with each other about my lusting after other pretty women. We can do this because we have iron-strong trust in each other and she could be absolutely sure I would not betray her. Long before we even considered any of this, it’d be common for me to quietly point out to Pet a girl I was enjoying looking at or for Pet to spot a nice pair of legs for me to ogle. Zero problem; very enjoyable; far more than the population of poor partnered men ever get.

Some time ago, I joked to Pet offhand that my having a mistress would be useful. She replied that it certainly would, but she wouldn’t be able to bear sharing me. The topic ended there, but the conversation piqued my curiosity: “Just how does someone go about actually keeping a mistress, anyway? Seems like a lot of work.” (Short answer? Have money, lie a lot.)

During that research, I stumbled upon cuckqueaning. I already knew but didn’t care at all about the existence of cuckolding/NTR fetishes and had always been curious as to whether a female equivalent existed and how it differed but I didn’t know the term until then. Now here they were! I was intrigued. Armed with the terminology, I read the accounts of as many different cuckqueans as I could find.

I mentioned my discovery to Pet and she agreed it was interesting and made sense that they had to exist. That was the end of the topic. We continued along our normal pet/owner relationship, with me training and using her as I had before. In the months after that we occasionally spoke on and off about it, mostly in the abstract as an interesting topic along with the many other interesting things we talk about together.

One day, after a particularly enjoyable bout of rough sex, a panting Pet confessed to me that she had briefly imagined that the squelching of pussy juice around my cock was from the pussy of another girl and that she had - to her surprise - not really minded.

We began carefully feeling the idea out together. It was discovered that not only did she actually not mind the idea of me with another girl but that she liked the idea of how much fun I’d have with it. (It’s worth noting here that she already fundamentally experienced sex as a way to serve me, deriving her own pleasure from mine.) We gradually came to the conclusion that it was something we should experiment with.

We made plans and Pet requested that I train her for it to help her along; like all her other training it was simply a matter of me finding what was already there and bringing it out. She went from being rather timid about the idea - she’d love me to have a mistress but didn’t really want to know about it - to squirming and craving the knowledge that I was fucking elsewhere.

So began the cuckqueaning experiments, which you have already read. Pet has gone from being recalcitrant about being present to wanting to know every detail about my encounters to discovering that she wants to watch and hear me fuck as many other girls as I can lay hands on.

sugar1212:

you know you are a cuckquean when:  He starts playing with you when just waking up and then falls asleep and instead of being upset you get hot when you think it might be because He realized it wasn’t Her when He heard you moan and decided it wasn’t worth being awake for.